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The amusing thing is both me and my current bf ONLY dated younger for the most part when online dating. He said it was vanity on his part and I told him I did it'cause I could (get away with it). But asI've stated numerous times on this site, I also was only capable to date younger (my usual preference except for my current same-age bf) cause I lied about my age. Shaved off quite several years too girls! Adult hookups near Arncliffe Australia. lol I was born in 1953, but wouldput 1960 or1961 on my profile. What helped is I 've a killer figure (lean, but curves, 36D) and pretty face thanks to years of intermittant plastic surgery (but nothing below the waist til recently (coolsculpting which I recommend). Myplastic surgeon's nurse says I endeavor youthfulness and look, on a good day, in my 40s still. So, I Have had a clear edge. I imagine I'm one of the fortunate ones, but I believe it's a combo of my style, a sort of God luminescence"/spiritualityand seems. Men have always been attracted to me in person. Big time. Sometimes it was flattering and occasionally a problem frankly.

I have the same observation. Andrew. For awhile I was amazed at women's profiles with their shopping list of demands (don't contact me if...you must be blah blah blah....""with no statement of what they have to offer. Certainly a man can collect much about a lady from reading her profile, and women in many cases are so inundated with answers from poor matches they become exasperated and start to set bounds; yet for me this language indicates an attitude of entitlement and self-absorption, and indicates maybe an assumption that she is the more desired one in the deal. Perhaps women are used to being pursued. A more considerate mature woman will comprehend that relationships are not just about her and her needs. Clearly men can frequently act exactly the same manner, only wanting sex. I believe the more profound truth is that many people just blunder automatically into relationships, compelled by their ill comprehended desires, knowing neither themselves or what they need from a connection.

Debby, you're talking rot as far as I am concerned. I am 62 and let me tell you, I Have had nights" with women 20-30 years younger and they do not even ask what I do for a job. Certainly the long term prospects are not great with a much younger woman. But in my experience a great deal of much younger women go for me. They say I'm a silver fox and fine lol - Sorry, but as much as youwant to believe it's about a cynical money grab, I must tell you we mature men, like some older women attract the opposite sex. Unfortunately, many don't attract the opposite sex. nature is unkind.

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Men over 45 do have more choices regarding dating. However there are certain ways around this. First, a girl has to expressly state what she offers a man (that he wants) in the context of dating and relationships. Adult Hookups Near Me Menai New South Wales. I've read tens of thousands of female profiles (35-55 years old) and practically none of them actually state what they provide a man. Normally, it is a record of demands and preferences. This really is not great advertising. A woman must be able to answer the question What do I provide a man that he wants?" If she doesn't understand, (or is offended by the question) she is not ready for dating.

Kathleen, I'm an old guy and most women on line in my age group make out they aren't interested in the younger guys. But of course they're. It is just that all the younger guys approaching senior women are mainly, looking for what they consider to be the fastest way to get easy sex. They only show interest in men their particular age when the supply of younger guys dries up, or the men begin to lose interest in them. It's insulting to me. And that is the reason why I'm not interested in the women, my age who approach me.

I get what you are saying. When my marriage fell apart a year ago people attempted to assure me that I was a grab. Adult Hookups near NSW. And I still thing I should be - am tall, clean-cut, seem youthful for 48, run my own successful company, know how to dance, am a community leader with environmental education and in my profession, lecture at university, write, from an exotic place (Alaska). As a result I'm really busy so online dating looked like the solution. But in fact in six I can count on one hand the number of women that have written back and no actual dates. I decided women in my local date range and attractiveness range. Just to check I wrote to fairly older women and not as attractive than myself. Nothing. Got on Tinder and swiped virtually every girl. Attempted all kinds of pictures. Nothing. while I talk to my female friends they say they are inundated. The only dates I've had, 2, were from old friends who both told me they'd been fantasising about me for years but then they left it at that and rarely return my calls. At Meetups women look interested however they don't respond. Simply do not recognize this, it is as if they expect me to pursue them and I am reluctant to do that because the two times I did that when my marriage was souring forever alienated good buddies. Really out to sea on all of this - so much has changed since I was last dating 26 years past.

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I feel like I am aging out" of online dating. I've detected after my last birthday (I turned 54 in June) that the answer I get on has dropped to almost nothing. It is as though going from the early 50s to the mid 50s is some kind of death-knell for a dating life. I begin contact with guys in an age-range of about 3 years younger up to about 8 years older than myself. The possible matches that the site sends me are age appropriate for me, but when I look at the age-range that those guys want, (usually 35-50) I often go past them, knowing I can not compete with women in their desirable range, even though many of those guys are as much as 5-8 years old than me! In other words, knowingly sends me matches that are likely not realistic for me to pursue. When I have e-mailed a number of those men, I don't hear back. I'm guessing they check out my profile, see my age, and probably read no further. Even if I'm within their desired range, I still do not get much of a reply. I assume the reason for this is they can get younger women to respond to them, so why would they go for me when they have a chance with the 45 year old version of me? If their first wife was their age, like a school honey or whatever, they likely feel entitled to a newer version, so to speak. Our culture encourages this. It's frustrating, not to mention depressing and more than a little humiliating. It is the builtin folly of online websites: you're simply defined by your age, in bold type right next to your user name.

One more thing. I'd like to ask all of my middle-aged online dating male and female compatriots a party favor. Please, let's rid our profiles of these overused phrases once and for all: glass-half-full, sensual, play-free, and easygoing. Adult Hookups Near Me Petersham New South Wales. And these, let's omit these too: "I look 10 years younger than I am," "I hate talking about myself, but..." and all derivatives of "my friends/mother/ex/children tell me that..I'm a glass-half-complete optimist, who's easy going and looks 10 years younger than I am." I think that if we can all really agree to clean up our profiles then perhaps, just perhaps, we can find some common ground and get back to the business of falling in love (or at least having fun trying).

Stop Using Your Profile to Complain about Men. Several guys noticed how many women's online dating profiles are included chiefly of complaints about guys - either their profiles, or their behavior in general. I agree with the guys on this one. There is absolutely no point in using your profile story as a soapbox for your negative perception of all single, middle-aged men (for heaven's sakes utilize a blog for that). So while I am certain there are men (and women) out there who are logged on and behaving badly, I believe that women must take responsibility for their own picks. We can keep our favorable expectations while at exactly the same time heeding our inner voice that warns us when something is not quite correct. Much too often some women are guided not by common sense, but by wishful thinking as well as a want to be nice and not appear ill-mannered, so we ignore the large, red flashing warning lights raging in our heads and proceed without caution. I once met a woman who expressed great dismay that she simply couldn't trust the men she met online. She then proceeded to tell me a story about one of these guys who spent days (yes, days) wooing her via e-mail. He told her stories of his limitless prosperity and his connections to powerful individuals all around the world. She slept with him on the 2nd date (after he promised to whisk her away to a private island that next weekend). But that is not all. She also gave him all of her identifying information when he told her that she needed to be checked by "his folks." And guess what? Yep! Her identity was stolen. Complaining about how she could simply no longer trust guys she met online was a bit like whining about how she could just no longer trust Nigerian princes. Adult hookups closest to Arncliffe.

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Tone Down the Boudoir Photos. You say you desire a quality man who honors you as a human being and is interested in having a serious relationship on you, then you post photos of yourself next to your bed (or in your bed, or in your bed, or in someone else's bed). And if you aren't posting photos of yourself next to your bed, (or on your bed, or in your bed), you're posting photos with way too much cleavage. Now, that's totally excellent - I have no trouble at all with this, and I am sure many men do not have a problem either - but what some men do have a problem with is when women post said super-sexy glamour photos and then complain to their buddies, or make statements on their profiles about how all guys are dogs and just want them for sex. And while we are on the topic of complaint-filled profiles...

Athletic and Toned Means, well, Athletic and Toned. I hate the body descriptors as much as you do (well, except for you size 0 women out there, you most likely adore them), but I do think it's significant that we at least strive for truthfulness. The word on the street is the fact that way too many women out there in the internet dating world are using the "fit and toned" descriptor in reference to their "about average" bodies (this complaint applies to men as well, of course). Adult hookups near Arncliffe, New South Wales. The thing is, there really is not anything wrong with having an around typical (or curvy) body thus let's take the pressure off ourselves and heed the guidance of Amy Schuler, and understand once and for all that a little meat on our bones isn't going to kill us, and it isn't going to drive away the good guys either (right, good guys?).

No. More. Instagram. Photos. I really like Instagram photos because many of the filters make my eyes appear strikingly blue (or green, or lavender), and some even shave about ten years off my face. But do I post these pictures on my internet dating profile? No I don't. Why? Because my eyes aren't actually that blue (or green or lavender), and I am about 10 years older than my Instagram photos would have you believe. This was the number one criticism among the guys I interviewed - artistically filtered (i.e., delusory) photographs. Truth in advertising women, truth in marketing.

Manner too Many Pet Photos. This was a huge criticism among the guys I interviewed. They're taking a look at your profile to learn more about you, not your pets. Adult Hookups nearest Arncliffe. So delete the pet pictures, especially the ones without you in them. Oh and while we're on the subject of pet pictures, I 've a personal request of all you single, middle aged women out there on dating websites: please, please, please delete any and all photos of your cats. This really is so important. I can't emphasize it enough. Single, middle-aged women already have to deal with way too many negative stereotypes, and the cat photos (you cuddling with your cats, you kissing your cats, multiple cats on your bed) merely serve to reinforce them. I once wrote a blog post about how dating sometimes made me feel undesirable , and I got hundreds of opinions from single middle-aged men throughout all of North America informing me that I must live in a dark flat with 100 or so cats, so really, please delete them.