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Advanced-level daters could be especially impatient to reach the point of make out or move on"; if my experience is any indication, even beginners can date their way to Taylorized proto-flirtation in about fourteen days, thanks to online dating's streamlined efficiency. (And in case you're on a date through OkCupid's new Crazy Blind Date" app---which Jezebel's Katie J.M. Baker recently called the Worst Idea Ever"---then the pressure to perform is compounded by your date grading your performance online in kudos"; OkCupid says users who give and receive more kudos will be looked upon more favorably by the app's algorithms.)

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Possibly dating strikes me as strange because I'd always had the luxury of choosing my partners from the branching arms of my social networks. I met my high school boyfriend because we both worked on the high school paper; I met my first college boyfriend because we lived across the hall from each other in the same college dorm. I met someone randomly at a bus stop, but it turnedout he was good friends with several of my good friends (all of whom I Had met through a preceding significant other). No matter whom I chose, everyone was somehow connected.

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I went back to OkCupid years afterwards, when graduate school found me three time zones away from the expansive, diversified social network that had kept me in friends, fans, and everything in between for an entire decade previous. I was having difficulty making friends in a brand new city; I was also dwelling 75 miles from my university campus, because it had become clear that small town life and I were not particularly compatible (10% Match, 39% Friend, 83% Opponent). In the depths of restless post-separation depression and rainy season sunlight withdrawal, I chose to try online dating. It did not seem so implausible at the time to imagine all sorts of absolutely reasonable and well adjusted people who, for whatever reasons, did not want to date within their tight knit communities of interesting friends. Possibly they might prefer rather to date arbitrary, disconnected me instead. They had get access to sex with me, and I'd get access to their social networks: Honest, right? (See, look: I was conceptualizing dating" as a marketplace transaction, and I hadn't even tried online dating yet.)

My first entre into online dating had little to do with dating. It had everything to do with a good buddy---who was also an ex---who called me up one freezing winter evening to demand that I join some site called OkCupid. He needed me to answer its questionsbecause it tells you how compatible you are with people!" Since we'd already proved beyond a shadow of a doubt that we are not, actually, romantically harmonious, I didn't see the purpose of this exercise. Still, he insisted: I want to learn how incompatible we're! I want a number!" So I spent an aimless subzero night in the dead of winter replying (sometimes off putting) multiple-choice questions on the Internet. Replying idiotic questions was something to do when all my on-line conversations were waiting for answers. But the more questions I replied, the more my maximum match percentage" went up. Although I 'd no intention of ever meeting anyone though the site, bumping that hypothetical possibility from 94% to 95% still felt to be an achievement. Then spring came, and I forgot about it. Adult Hookups nearby Balmain.