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The extreme level of male societal weakness and female power in internet dating is really contributing to a widespread, hazardous degree of animosity against women through the society. I am sorry to say but this animosity is well deserved. Never before have so many guys had to come to face to face together with the sheer hypocrisy and entirely excessive nature of our female-imposed courtship rite. It is certainly changed how I think about women. I'm also finding that I 've much less tolerance for the lop-sided nature of male-female interactions. MGTOW is starting to make lots of sense. This really is not challenging or unjust, it is many magnitudes beyond what could be considered remotely practical. It is horrifying. It's amusing because online dating is most likely going to destroy feminism. All these are the experiences men have which color their interpretation of public debate. Women whining and moaning about "equality" given this set of societal standards is actually hideous and impossible to take seriously.
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As far as attractive women not responding to messages - the anonymity of the computer keyboard and display have emboldened hordes of men to approach these women, when in the past the scummy ones would've merely become the man in the corner of the bar staring, the guy at random bumping and grinding on women on the dancefloor, but their masses would've been guys just sitting at home, in their own cellar, paring wings off flies or whatever. However, the net and online dating have bridged "desire" and "action" so that with almost zero effort, tons of socially-maladjusted misogynist a-holes can drop their garbage anywhere without the consequences they had face trying to do it in person. So I do believe that women are embittered by the vast deluge of BS they have to sift through, and it drowns the more nobly-purposed attempts.
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To Ryan Dube: Thank you for the thoughtful answer, Ryan. And unfortunately, I guess you are right. It is frustrating, for men and women I figure, how shallow and looks-focused internet dating is. Actually, a study by OkCupid shown quite clear data that profile text matters not at all, and graphics are what drive action on the website. I believe, to a point, this is actually the case in "real life" also - that individuals could be superficial, and everyone desires a "stunning" partner. But in real life you don't have this fake world where all the pretty folks are spread before you as available to you... You meet who you meet, and will tell fast in many cases if they will be interested or not, and can also experience more than simply the visual. The profiles are meant to give that experience, but I think possibly, for many different reasons, internet dating becomes some fantasy world where everyone seems to believe their stunning partner is waiting, and it is work to read a profile, and when he or she isn't appealing enough, why bother?
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