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The amusing thing is both me and my current bf JUST dated younger for the most part when online dating. He said it was vanity on his part and I told him I did it'cause I could (get away with it). But asI've said numerous times on this website, I also was just competent to date younger (my usual preference except for my current same-age bf) cause I lied about my age. Shaved off quite a few years too girls! Adult Hookups nearest Carlton Australia. lol I was born in 1953, but wouldput 1960 or1961 on my profile. What helped is I have a killer figure (slim, but curves, 36D) and pretty face thanks to years of intermittant plastic surgery (but nothing below the waistline til lately (coolsculpting which I recommend). Myplastic surgeon's nurse says I endeavor youthfulness and look, on a good day, in my 40s still. So, I've had a clear edge. I imagine I'm one of the lucky ones, but I believe it is a combo of my style, a sort of God glow"/spiritualityand appears. Men have ever been brought to me in person. Big time. Occasionally it was flattering and occasionally a problem honestly.

I 've the same observation. Andrew. For awhile I was amazed at women's profiles with their shopping list of demands (don't contact me if...you must be blah blah blah....""with no statement of what they have to offer. Definitely a man can collect much about a woman from reading her profile, and women are often so inundated with answers from poor matches they become exasperated and begin to establish bounds; yet for me this language implies an attitude of entitlement and self-absorption, and suggests perhaps an assumption that she's the more desired one in the deal. Maybe women are used to being pursued. A more sensible mature woman will recognize that relationships are not just about her and her needs. Clearly men can often behave exactly the same style, just wanting sex. I believe the deeper truth is that many people merely blunder unconsciously into relationships, compelled by their ill comprehended desires, knowing neither themselves or what they want from a connection.

Debby, you're speaking rot as far as I am concerned. I'm 62 and let me tell you, I've had nights" with women 20-30 years younger and they do not even ask what I do for a job. Certainly the long term prospects aren't great with a much younger woman. But in my experience a lot of much younger women go for me. They say I am a silver fox and handsome lol - Sorry, but as much as youwant to consider it's about a cynical money grab, I must tell you we older men, like some old women bring the opposite sex. Unfortunately, a lot of people don't bring the opposite sex. nature is cruel.

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Men over 45 do have more options regarding dating. But there are ways around this. First, a woman has to expressly say what she offers a man (that he needs) in the context of dating and relationships. Adult Hookups Near Me Perth Tasmania. I have read tens of thousands of female profiles (35-55 years old) and practically none of them really say what they offer a man. Usually, it's a listing of demands and choices. This really isn't good marketing. A female should be able to answer the question What do I offer a guy he desires?" If she doesn't understand, (or is offended by the question) she is not prepared for dating.

Kathleen, I am an older guy and many women on line in my age group make out they are not interested in the younger guys. But of course they are. It is merely that all the younger guys approaching elderly women are predominantly, looking for what they consider to be the quickest way to get easy sex. They simply reveal interest in guys their very own age when the supply of younger men dries up, or the guys start to lose interest in them. it is insulting to me. And that is the reason why I'm not interested in the women, my age who approach me.

I get what you are saying. When my marriage fell apart a year ago people attempted to reassure me that I was a catch. Adult Hookups in TAS. And I still matter I should be - am tall, clean-cut, look young for 48, run my own successful firm, understand just how to dance, am a community leader with environmental education and in my profession, lecture at university, write, from an exotic place (Alaska). As a result I am very busy so online dating looked like the solution. But in fact in six I can count on one hand the amount of women who've written back and no genuine dates. I decided women in my date range and attractiveness range. Merely to check I wrote to rather older women and less appealing than myself. Nothing. Got on Tinder and swiped almost every woman. Attempted all sorts of images. Nothing. When I speak to my female friends they say they are inundated. The only dates I've had, 2, were from old pals who both told me they'd been fantasising about me for years but then they left it at that and scarcely return my calls. At Meetups women look interested however they do not answer. Simply do not understand this, it's as if they expect me to pursue them and I am reluctant to do that because the two times I did that when my marriage was souring forever alienated good friends. Really out to sea on all of this - so much has changed since I was last dating 26 years ago.

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I feel like I am aging out" of internet dating. I've noticed after my last birthday (I turned 54 in June) that the answer I get on has dropped to almost nothing. It is as though going from the early 50s to the mid 50s is some kind of death knell for a dating life. I begin contact with guys in an age-range of about 3 years younger up to about 8 years older than myself. The potential matches that the website sends me are age appropriate for me, but when I look at the age-range that those guys want, (generally 35-50) I often move past them, understanding I can't compete with women in their desirable range, even though many of those men are as much as 5-8 years older than me! In other words, knowingly sends me matches which are probably not realistic for me to pursue. When I have e-mailed some of those guys, I don't hear back. I am guessing they check out my profile, see my age, and likely read no further. Even if I am within their desirable range, I still don't get much of a response. I assume the reason behind this is they can get younger women to respond to them, so why would they go for me when they've a chance with the 45 year old model of me? If their first wife was their age, like a college honey or whatever, they likely feel entitled to a newer version, so to speak. Our culture supports this. It is frustrating, not to mention depressing and more than a little humiliating. It is the built-in folly of online websites: you are just defined by your actual age, in bold type right next to your user name.

One more thing. I'd like to ask all of my middle-aged online dating male and female compatriots a party favor. Please, let's rid our profiles of these overused phrases once and for all: glass-half-full, sensuous, play-free, and easygoing. Adult Hookups Near Me Gladstone Tasmania. And these, let's omit these too: "I look 10 years younger than I am," "I hate talking about myself, but..." and all derivatives of "my buddies/mother/ex-husband/kids tell me that..I am a glass-half-full optimist, who is easy going and looks 10 years younger than I am." I believe that if we can all agree to clean up our profiles then perhaps, just perhaps, we can locate some common ground and get back to the work of falling in love (or at least having fun trying).

Quit Using Your Profile to Whine about Men. Several guys noticed how many women's online dating profiles are comprised mostly of grievances about guys - either their profiles, or their conduct in general. I agree with the men on this one. There is absolutely no point in using your profile narrative as a soapbox for your negative understanding of all single, middle-aged men (for heaven's sakes utilize a blog for that). So while I'm sure there are guys (and women) out there who are logged on and acting badly, I really believe that women must take responsibility for their own selections. We can keep our favorable expectations while at the exact same time heeding our inner voice that warns us when something is not quite appropriate. Far too frequently some women are guided not by common sense, but by wishful thinking and a want to be nice and not seem impolite, so we discount the large, red flashing warning lights raging in our heads and continue without caution. I once met a woman who expressed great dismay that she simply couldn't trust the men she met online. She then continued to tell me a story about one of these guys who spent days (yes, days) wooing her via email. He told her stories of his limitless wealth and his links to powerful individuals all around the globe. She slept with him on the 2nd date (after he promised to whisk her away to a private island that next weekend). But that's not all. She also gave him all of her identifying information when he told her that she needed to be vetted by "his people." And guess what? Yep! Her identity was stolen. Complaining about how she could just no longer trust guys she met online was a bit like whining about how she could simply no longer trust Nigerian princes. Adult hookups nearest Carlton.

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Tone Down the Boudoir Shots. You say you desire an excellent guy who honors you as a human being and is interested in having a serious relationship on you, and then you post pictures of yourself next to your bed (or on your own bed, or in your bed, or in another person 's bed). And if you're not posting photos of yourself next to your bed, (or on your bed, or in your bed), you are posting pictures with far too much cleavage. Now, that is totally excellent - I have no trouble at all with this, and I am sure many guys do not have a problem either - but what some guys do have a problem with is when women place said super-hot glamour pictures and then whine to their buddies, or make statements on their profiles about how all men are dogs and just need them for sex. And while we are on the topic of criticism-filled profiles...

Athletic and Toned Means, well, Athletic and Toned. I hate the body descriptors as much as you do (well, except for you size 0 women out there, you almost certainly love them), but I do think it is significant that we at least strive for truthfulness. The word on the street is the fact that far too many women out there in the internet dating world are using the "fit and toned" descriptor in reference to their "about average" bodies (this criticism applies to men as well, of course). Adult Hookups near Carlton Tasmania. The matter is, there really is not anything wrong with having an about average (or curvy) body thus let's take the pressure off ourselves and heed the advice of Amy Schuler, and understand once and for all that a little meat on our bones is not going to kill us, and it isn't going to drive away the good guys either (correct, good guys?).

No. More. Instagram. Pictures. I really like Instagram photos because lots of the filters make my eyes appear strikingly blue (or green, or lavender), and some even shave about 10 years off my face. But do I post these photos on my online dating profile? No I do not. Why? Because my eyes are not actually that blue (or green or lavender), and I am about 10 years older than my Instagram pictures would have you believe. This was the number one criticism among the guys I interviewed - artistically filtered (i.e., delusory) photographs. Truth in advertising women, truth in advertising.

Manner too Many Pet Photographs. This was a huge criticism among the men I interviewed. They're taking a look at your profile to find out more about you, not your pets. Adult hookups nearest Carlton. So delete the pet pictures, especially the ones without you in them. Oh and while we're on the subject of pet pictures, I got a personal request of all you single, middle-aged women out there on dating websites: please, please, please delete any and all photos of your cats. This really is really significant. I can not emphasize it enough. Single, middle aged women already have to deal with way too many negative stereotypes, and also the cat photos (you cuddling with your cats, you kissing your cats, multiple cats in your bed) merely serve to augment them. I once wrote a blog post about how dating occasionally made me feel unwelcome , and I got hundreds of comments from single middle-aged men throughout all of North America advising me that I must live in a dark flat with 100 or so cats, so actually, please delete them.