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The amusing thing is both me and my current bf ONLY dated younger for the most part when online dating. He said it was vanity on his part and I told him I did it'cause I could (get away with it). But asI've stated numerous times on this blog, I also was just capable to date younger (my usual taste except for my current same-age bf) cause I lied about my age. Shaved off quite a few years too girls! Free hook ups closest to Varsity Lakes, Australia. lol I was born in 1953, but wouldput 1960 or1961 on my profile. What helped is I 've a killer figure (lean, but curves, 36D) and pretty face thanks to years of intermittant plastic surgery (but nothing below the waist til lately (coolsculpting which I recommend). Myplastic surgeon's nurse says I job youthfulness and look, on a good day, in my 40s still. So, I Have had a clear advantage. I guess I'm one of the lucky ones, but I believe it's a combo of my style, a type of God glow"/spiritualityand looks. Men have always been brought to me in person. Big time. Sometimes it was flattering and occasionally a difficulty honestly.

I 've the same observation. Andrew. For awhile I was amazed at women's profiles with their shopping list of demands (don't contact me if...you must be blah blah blah....""with no statement of what they have to offer. Surely a guy can assemble much about a lady from reading her profile, and women are often so inundated with answers from inferior matches they become exasperated and begin to set bounds; yet for me this language implies an attitude of entitlement and self absorption, and suggests perhaps an assumption that she is the more desired one in the deal. Maybe women are used to being pursued. A more considerate mature woman will understand that relationships are not just about her and her needs. Definitely guys can often act the same way, merely wanting sex. I believe the deeper truth is the fact that many folks only blunder automatically into relationships, compelled by their poorly understood desires, knowing neither themselves or what they need from a relationship.

Debby, you are discussing rot as far as I am concerned. I am 62 and let me tell you, I've had nights" with women 20-30 years younger and they don't even ask what I do for a job. Certainly the long term prospects are not good with a considerably younger woman. But in my experience a whole lot of much younger women go for me. They say I am a silver fox and handsome lol - Sorry, but as much as youwant to consider it's about a cynical money grab, I need to inform you we elderly guys, like some old women entice the opposite sex. Regrettably, a lot of people don't bring the opposite sex. nature is cruel.

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Men over 45 do have more options regarding dating. But there are certain ways around this. First, a girl has to expressly say what she offers a man (that he needs) in the context of dating and relationships. Free Hook Ups Near Me Nerang Queensland. I have read thousands of female profiles (35-55 years old) and almost none of them really state what they offer a man. Normally, it's a record of demands and choices. This isn't good marketing. A woman should have the ability to answer the question What do I offer a guy that he needs?" If she does not understand, (or is offended by the question) she's not prepared for dating.

Kathleen, I'm an elderly guy and many women on line in my age group make out they are not interested in the younger men. But of course they're. It's just that all the younger guys approaching older women are predominantly, looking for what they consider to be the quickest way to get easy sex. They only reveal interest in guys their particular age when the supply of younger guys dries up, or the guys start to lose interest in them. it is insulting to me. And that is why I am not interested in the women, my age who approach me.

I get what you're saying. When my marriage fell apart a year ago people attempted to reassure me that I was a catch. Free Hook Ups near QLD. And I still thing I should be - am tall, trim, look young for 48, run my own successful business, know just how to dance, am a community leader with environmental education and in my profession, lecture at university, write, from an exotic location (Alaska). As a result I am quite active so online dating looked like the solution. But in fact in six I can count on one hand the amount of women that have written back and no actual dates. I decided women in my local date range and attractiveness range. Simply to check I wrote to rather elderly women and less appealing than myself. Nothing. Got on Tinder and swiped almost every woman. Attempted all sorts of pictures. Nothing. When I speak to my female friends they say they are inundated. The sole dates I've had, 2, were from old pals who both told me they'd been fantasising about me for years but then they left it at that and infrequently return my calls. At Meetups women look interested however they don't respond. Just don't comprehend this, it is as if they expect me to pursue them and I 'm loath to do that because the two times I did that when my marriage was souring permanently alienated good friends. Really out to sea on all of this - so much has changed since I was last dating 26 years past.

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I feel like I 'm aging out" of internet dating. I've detected after my last birthday (I turned 54 in June) that the answer I get on has dropped to almost nothing. It's as though moving from the early 50s to the mid 50s is some sort of death knell for a dating life. I begin contact with guys in an age-range of about 3 years younger up to about 8 years older than myself. The possible matches the site sends me are age appropriate for me, but when I look in the age-range that those men desire, (normally 35-50) I frequently go past them, knowing I can't compete with women in their desirable range, even though many of those guys are as much as 5-8 years older than me! In other words, knowingly sends me matches that are likely not realistic for me to pursue. When I've emailed a few of these guys, I never hear back. I am guessing they check out my profile, see my age, and likely read no further. Even if I'm within their desirable range, I still do not get much of a reply. I suppose the reason behind this is they can get younger women to react to them, so why would they go for me when they have a chance with the 45 year old model of me? If their first wife was their age, such as, for instance, a college love or whatever, they probably feel entitled to a newer version, so to speak. Our culture supports this. It is frustrating, not to mention depressing and more than a little humiliating. It is the builtin folly of on-line websites: you're only defined by your age, in bold type right next to your user name.

One more thing. I'd like to ask all of my middle aged online dating male and female compatriots a favor. Please, let us rid our profiles of these overused phrases once and for all: glass-half-full, sensual, drama-free, and easygoing. Free Hook Ups Near Me Oxenford Queensland. And these, let's omit these too: "I look 10 years younger than I am," "I loathe talking about myself, but..." and any and all derivatives of "my pals/mother/ex-husband/children tell me that..I am a glass-half-complete optimist, who's easy going and looks 10 years younger than I am." I think that if we can all agree to clean up our profiles then perhaps, just maybe, we can find some common ground and get back to the work of falling in love (or at least having fun trying).

Quit Using Your Profile to Whine about Men. Several men noted how many women's online dating profiles are included mostly of complaints about guys - either their profiles, or their behavior in general. I agree with the men on this one. There's absolutely no point in using your profile story as a soapbox for your negative perception of all single, middle-aged men (for heaven's sakes use a website for that). So while I am certain there are guys (and women) out there who are logged on and acting badly, I believe that women must take responsibility for their own choices. We can maintain our positive expectations while at exactly the same time heeding our inner voice that warns us when something is not quite appropriate. Far too frequently some women are led not by common sense, but by wishful thinking and a want to be fine and not seem ill-mannered, so we ignore the large, red flashing warning lights raging in our heads and continue without caution. I once met a girl who expressed great sadness that she simply couldn't trust the guys she met online. She then continued to tell me a story about one of these guys who spent days (yes, days) wooing her via e-mail. He told her stories of his limitless prosperity and his links to powerful people all around the globe. She slept with him on the 2nd date (after he assured to whisk her off to a private island that next weekend). But that's not all. She also gave him all of her identifying information when he told her that she needed to be vetted by "his folks." And guess what? Yep! Her identity was stolen. Complaining about how she could only no longer trust guys she met online was a bit like complaining about how she could merely no longer trust Nigerian princes. Free Hook Ups closest to Varsity Lakes.

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Tone Down the Boudoir Photos. You say you want a quality guy who honors you as a human being and is interested in having a serious relationship on you, after which you post pictures of yourself next to your bed (or on your bed, or in your bed, or in another person 's bed). And if you aren't posting photographs of yourself next to your bed, (or on your bed, or in your bed), you're posting photos with way too much cleavage. Now, that is certainly fine - I have no trouble at all with this, and I'm sure many guys don't have a problem either - but what some men do have a problem with is when women post said super-hot glamor pictures and then whine to their friends, or make statements on their profiles about how all guys are dogs and just want them for sex. And while we're on the subject of criticism-filled profiles...

Athletic and Toned Means, well, Athletic and Toned. I hate the body descriptors as much as you do (well, except for you size 0 women out there, you most likely adore them), but I do think it's important that we at least strive for honesty. The word on the street is the fact that way too many women out there in the internet dating world are utilizing the "athletic and toned" descriptor in reference to their "about average" bodies (this criticism applies to men also, of course). Free Hook Ups near me Varsity Lakes Queensland. The thing is, there actually isn't anything wrong with having an about typical (or curvy) body thus let us take the pressure off ourselves and heed the guidance of Amy Schuler, and comprehend once and for all that a little meat on our bones is not going to kill us, and it isn't going to drive away the good guys either (appropriate, good guys?).

No. More. Instagram. Photographs. I love Instagram photos because several of the filters make my eyes seem strikingly blue (or green, or lavender), and some even shave about 10 years off my face. But do I post these pictures on my online dating profile? No I don't. Why? Because my eyes aren't really that blue (or green or lavender), and I am about 10 years older than my Instagram photos would have you believe. This was the number one complaint among the men I interviewed - artistically filtered (i.e., deceptive) photos. Truth in advertising women, truth in advertising.

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